End with the ask

An argument without an ask is a complaint.

You've made the case. Now what do you want them to DO? Say it in one sentence — 'so I'm asking for two weeks', 'so I'd like you to read the one-pager', 'so let's try it for a month'. Arguments that don't end in an ask end in 'hm, interesting' and nothing changes.

Instead of

…so yeah. That's basically my view on it. Anyway.

Try

…so what I'm asking for is one month, and we review it with the numbers.

Try it today

Finish one argument today with 'so what I'm asking is…' and a single concrete thing.

The science

Every persuasion model ends in a call to action — Monroe's Motivated Sequence (1935) and Cialdini's research on explicit requests: people comply far more when told exactly what to do.

Where you'd actually use it

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